There is not enough traction

"The Message" is not getting out. The SNAP Conference will be held in Washington next month so I thought I would gather my thoughts on how I see the current landscape in order to help me determine how I will spend my time at plenary sessions and breakout sessions.  In the two years (almost to… Continue reading There is not enough traction

Threats and intimidation

Over time, Gibson became much more controlling and aggressive.  He was less likely to "soften" me up with alcohol and much more forward when he had the opportunity to get me alone.  His initial caring words and expressions of god's love and understanding that what we were doing was good and right and part of… Continue reading Threats and intimidation

First descent into hell

I knew something was wrong.  I was supposed to spend the night at the rectory.  The reason for the stay has long ago left my mind.  Instead of getting on the East Stroudsburg School District bus in front of Notre Dame that would take me to East Stroudsburg High School to allow me to transfer to… Continue reading First descent into hell

The tyranny of distance and the curse of the Internet

I am frustrated.  Admittedly, some of the frustration comes from a tyranny of distance.  I am in southern Virginia and the diocese that I have an issue with is 400 miles worth of driving north of here.  I would love to have a face to face conversation with the Bishop's advocate so I could look… Continue reading The tyranny of distance and the curse of the Internet

An Open Letter to Bishop Joseph F. Martino, Diocese of Scranton

At some point it stops being about God, doesn’t it?

Building an Online Community for Survivors of Clerical Sexual Abuse.

I am trying to work out where I want to go with this blog. Now that I am over 50 posts into this little exercise in free speech I am struggling with where to go next. I am trying to find out what I should be talking about and what voice I should use to… Continue reading Building an Online Community for Survivors of Clerical Sexual Abuse.

Diocese of Scranton Continues to Hide Pedophile Priests

The Diocese of Scranton has more pedophiles in the closet. Obviously they don't want you, the parishioners of the Diocese, the media or law enforcement to be aware of any of this. The latest name to be added to the Diocese of Scranton's growing list of pedophiles is Father Austin E. Flanagan.  Father Flanagan (not… Continue reading Diocese of Scranton Continues to Hide Pedophile Priests

Fear and Doubt

Thirty-five years later and I still have moments of terror.    He had shown up in my life while I was in college and caused me to panic, the flight instinct kicking in and sending me into a spiral.  He was always there in the back of my head and in the forefront of my… Continue reading Fear and Doubt

Picture This…

I realize that people are becoming desensitized to the Catholic Church's Sex Scandal.  The media coverage over the past 10 years has been overwhelming at times.  Some people would like to see this story die and go away.  I know that the Catholic Church would like to see people like me go away and remain… Continue reading Picture This…

Another Jurisdiction Heard From

A detective from Orlando contacted me yesterday to tell me that they could not prefer charges against Father Gibson for the event that occurred when he brought me to Disney World in the summer of 1974.  This was not a surprise to me.  The statute of limitations had long since expired on Father Gibson. What… Continue reading Another Jurisdiction Heard From